"Failing elegantly” sets in when people stop believing they can be successful, and start devoting their energy to how best to lose. There is a moment, and everyone can feel it, when a project or the commitment to the promised results enters the risk zone—when challenges arise and there are no clear answers or remedies. It is at this fork in the road that leaders must recognize the signs of an impending crisis of confidence and intervene with specific messages and actions aimed at getting everyone back into the winner’s mindset. Following are several leadership mistakes that put your skin care facility’s team in danger of failing elegantly—along with some remedies.
Don’t set impossible goals. Leaders need to learn the fine line between an invigorating challenge and a wholly deflating expectation for their spa team. They also need to realize that everyone on the team may not share their level of commitment. Goals that are clearly beyond any reasonable confidence of achievement are worse than easy goals—they actually disengage your team’s energy.
Don’t let people get pseudo-wins. Very talented skin care professionals can and do lose focus on problems that must be solved to transform an idea into reality. Leaders must develop an eye and ear for this weakness—and must try to listen for it in every conversation and look for it in every review. They must relentlessly redirect energy to the hard problems, realizing that it is human nature to drift from the tough stuff in favor of more emotionally fulfilling and easier project modules.